Julie Mazer18 July 2019 at 01:18 I was confused when I read this. Shouldn't it be... Those who bandage over their emotional wounds and those who hurt others to avoid taking their bandages off?
Gina Shivvin 2 August 2019 at 04:25 Mmm, that's a different interpretation. TATKOPS are good like that - not one meaning. What I meant was that we each have emotional wounds and we are very defensive of them - we construct all sorts of psychological and behavioural defences around them - and if anyone challenges our defences, well we hurt them rather than looking - or taking off the bandaging off our wounds.
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Julie Mazer18 July 2019 at 01:18
ReplyDeleteI was confused when I read this. Shouldn't it be... Those who bandage over their emotional wounds and those who hurt others to avoid taking their bandages off?
Gina Shivvin 2 August 2019 at 04:25
ReplyDeleteMmm, that's a different interpretation. TATKOPS are good like that - not one meaning. What I meant was that we each have emotional wounds and we are very defensive of them - we construct all sorts of psychological and behavioural defences around them - and if anyone challenges our defences, well we hurt them rather than looking - or taking off the bandaging off our wounds.
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ReplyDelete(But now I think it is a confusing TATKOP, and not really a legitimate dichotomy at all! Thanks Julie)